Q & A with Teresiah Malatji: Inside The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint
Dear Wellbeing Tribe,
As women, so much of our personal wellbeing is intertwined with the quality of our relationships — how we love, connect, and grow with those closest to us.
Over time, through my work, I have witnessed how conscious partnership can transform not only our homes, but our emotional, spiritual and professional balance too.
That is why I am so excited to introduce a new addition to our offerings: The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint — a guide to creating and experiencing fulfilling, intentional and thriving partnerships.
This Blueprint is for anyone seeking to build or redefine partnership with clarity, intention, purpose and wellbeing at the center.
Whether you are married, cohabiting, co-parenting, in companionship, or preparing for a future partnership, this work will meet you where you are.
I invite you to explore the Q&A article below to learn more. If this speaks to your heart, subscribe to the Life Partnership Blueprint Newsletter for reflections, practices, and stories that will help you nurture a love that heals, builds and lasts.
Q: What is The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™?
Teresiah:
The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™ is a guide I created to help individuals and couples build and experience fulfilling life partnerships. It combines insights from my legal background in family and contract law, my leadership experience in the corporate world, and my personal journey through marriage and conscious co-parenting.
When I speak of a Life Partnership, the word “life” is more than a label that differentiates it from business or professional partnerships. The word “life” is not about the duration of a partnership. It is about intention and how two people choose to show up with awareness, purpose and presence. In addition, it is the quality of connection that allows both individuals to grow, evolve, thrive and build life together.
The Blueprint is rooted not only in my personal experiences but also in my careful observation of the relationships, marriages and divorces of people around me. Over the years, I have seen how many couples build love without a shared framework. I have thoroughly observed how that often leads to imbalance, hurt, challenges, struggles, resentment, abuse, depression, stress and disconnection. These reflections inspired me to create a guide that helps individuals and couples bring both clarity, intention and compassion into their partnerships.
Q: What inspired you to create the Blueprint?
Teresiah:
I was fortunate to work in leadership positions, where I learned that successful partnerships are the foundation of every thriving business.
When I went through my own awakening journey, I realized that the same principles that help companies drive successful business, to name a few – innovation, clarity and measurement of roles, inclusivity, alignment, accountability, vision, purpose – are also what make life relationships succeed.
After experiencing and observing both the beauty and the difficulties of relationships, I felt called to bring these insights into the personal space. The Blueprint was born out of my desire to help others build relationships that incorporates the fundamental elements of successful partnerships.
Q: What are some of the key themes explored?
Teresiah:
What is amazing about the Blueprint is that it touches multiple areas of life. It offers couples a holistic journey toward conscious partnership. Without giving away all the insights, some of the core themes include:
- Exploring individual vision to build a shared vision
- Aligning individual goals to create shared goals
- Self-discovery, self-development and self-healing
- Designing your home as a sanctuary for wellbeing — creating an environment that supports, prioritizes, protects and promotes the couple’s personal wellbeing, social wellbeing, professional wellbeing, growth, development and evolution
- Healing patterns that hinder growth
- Balancing individuality and togetherness
Each theme is complemented by reflection exercises and co-creation practices, that are designed to help partners to grow consciously and thrive together.
Which types of relationships can benefit from the LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint?
Teresiah:
This blueprint is for anyone who believes in building intentional, healthy and fulfilling partnerships. Whether you are:
- In a marriage whether civil, religious, or under customary law
- In a long-term relationship or life partnership
- In a companionship with an intention to build life together
- Engaged or preparing to enter a committed union
- Single but preparing yourself for a future partnership
- Consciously redefining a relationship after separation or loss
- Engaged and cohabiting
- Engaged and preparing to enter into a long term commitment
- Divorced and cohabiting
- Cohabiting with the intention to build a committed life together
The principles, reflections and co-creation practices within the blueprint are inclusive and designed to serve allrelationships. We are in a new era where love is defined not by form, but by fulfilment. The innovative and inclusive LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint recognises this important factor.
Q: What are the consequences of not entering into a Life Partnership Agreement?
Teresiah:
When couples don’t intentionally define their partnership with a clear agreement, challenges often arise. Without shared understanding, relationships can suffer in many areas – legally, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically and financially.
Hidden resentments, confusion about roles and misaligned expectations can build quietly, leading to stress, stagnation or even depression. Intentional agreements are not just practical, they create clarity, alignment and a foundation for a thriving partnership.
Without clarity, expectations can clash and misunderstandings can grow silently over time.
From a legal perspective, in many jurisdictions, life partners don’t automatically have the same rights as married couples especially regarding property, inheritance, or decision-making in times of crisis.
This means that even years of commitment may not translate into legal protection.
A Life Partnership Agreement isn’t about formality. It is about bringing alignment, awareness and respect to the relationship.
Q: How has creating The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™ transformed you personally?
Teresiah:
This process has completely changed how I see relationships, love and human connection. When I began developing the LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™, I thought I was creating a tool to help others but along the way, it helped me heal, grow and expand too.
I have become more aware of the power and potential that fulfilling relationships carry in shaping individuals and society. My perception of love is now deeply positive. I celebrate love and I root for healthy relationships. I no longer see them as sources of struggle, but as spaces for growth and co-creation.
Through this journey, I have become wiser and more self-aware. I know what I want, what I deserve and what it means to love from a place of wholeness. Most importantly, I am healing many of my past relationship traumas. This has made me more compassionate and balanced, both as a life coach and as a person.
Q: What do you love most about The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™?
Teresiah:
While I love everything about the Blueprint, what excites me most is its ability to ignite inclusivity, innovation, wisdom and intelligence within couples. I have seen how it brings out creativity, self-awareness and powerful problem-solving skills in the way partners manage their day-to-day relationship.
It is not just about emotional connection. It is about co-creating a thriving, intelligent partnership that adapts and evolves with life.
I also love that the Blueprint covers multiple areas of life within a partnership from finances and communication to shared values, personal growth and vision. etc. It invites couples to become conscious creators of their relationship and not just participants in it.
It is inclusive enough to accommodate all types of relationships and can even be used by single individuals who are preparing to enter new partnerships. It offers guidance and reflection that will help them step into future relationships with awareness, clarity and intention.
Q: What is your vision for The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™ in the coming years?
Teresiah:
My vision for the Blueprint is to see it shaping a generation of couples who are genuinely happy, healthy – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
I want to see relationships where both partners feel comfortable, satisfied, respected, creative, innovative and inspired to create relationships that bring out the best in each other.
In the next five years, I see The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint™ contributing to a global shift in how we view love and partnership as we move away from survival and endurance, toward thriving, learning and conscious co-creation.
I want people to celebrate healthy love again, to root for love and to believe that partnership can be a sacred and empowering space. Above all, I want this work to help eliminate all forms of abuse in relationships by equipping people with the wisdom, tools and awareness to build safe partnerships.
Q: What are the benefits of incorporating the LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint in a relationship?
Teresiah:
The Blueprint offers couples more than just structure. It brings clarity, direction and balance to their relationship. When couples incorporate the Blueprint into the relationships, they will move from autopilot to intentional living and consequently create a partnership that feels alive, purposeful and deeply supportive of each partner.
Some of the key benefits include:
Clarity and shared direction — partners understand each other’s values, goals, and expectations, reducing confusion and conflict.
Accountability and alignment — each partner takes responsibility for their role in nurturing the relationship, creating fairness and trust.
Emotional and mental wellbeing — through reflection and healing practices, couples build inner peace and emotional resilience.
Healthier communication and problem-solving — the Blueprint encourages maturity, self-awareness and problem solving skills.
Growth and transformation — each partner is free and comfortable to evolve personally while contributing to the growth of the relationship.
Enhanced intimacy and friendship — as understanding deepens, the bond strengthens resulting in genuine companionship.
Elimination of hidden resentment — when expectations are clearly defined and agreed upon, couples avoid the pain of unmet or unspoken needs that often lead to frustration, anger or emotional distance.
Holistic wellbeing — couples thrive spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially, intellectually, mentally, socially, and professionally because their relationship becomes a foundation of balance and support.
Ultimately, the Blueprint helps couples (and individuals preparing for partnership) to experience relationships that nourish rather than drain, build rather than break, and heal rather than harm.
A Note from Teresiah
The LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint Q&A is a living and evolving conversation. As more people engage with the Blueprint, we will receive new questions, insights and areas for clarity. This article will therefore be updated over time to reflect those discussions to ensure that it grows with the community that it serves. If you have a question or reflection that you would like addressed, you are welcome to share your questions to info@lifewithterry.com.
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🧡With love,
Teresiah Malatji aka Terry

