Do You Have the Abilities Essential for Creating a Fulfilling Partnership?

Author: Teresiah Malatji

Explore the foundational abilities that shape meaningful and lasting partnerships

The first important word to understand in a life partnership is “ability.” The big question is: Do you have the abilities required to enter into and create a fulfilling partnership?

This word is one of the most essential building blocks in my teachings at Life with Terry. It forms the foundation of everything we explore – from personal to social and professional wellbeing.

The next big question I have for you is this: Before you entered into your relationship, did anyone ever sit you down and teach you about the importance of studying:

  • The meaning and power of a human being’s physical and non-physical (spiritual) attributes.
  • The essential physical and spiritual attributes required to build great, healthy and meaningful relationships.
  • The dangerous spiritual attributes you must be aware of in a relationship.

If your answer is no, or even if you are unsure, you are not alone. Most people enter relationships without understanding these essential human attributes. 

Fortunately, this article, and the ones that follow, are for you. Together, we will explore the abilities and qualities that form the foundation of a fulfilling partnership.

Awareness of the essential abilities for a fulfilling partnership allows partners to consciously acquire, develop, or heal the qualities that create harmony, growth, and deep connection.

In this article I will be focusing on the meaning of “ability” as defined for purposes of LwTee Life Partnership Blueprint. In the next article we will unpack the essential physical attributes for building a fulfilling partnership. 

Did you know that the most fulfilled people are those who have:

  1. Identified their abilities;
  2. Fully developed their abilities;
  3. Found platforms to fully utilise their abilities to achieve life goals-personally, socially & professionally;
  4. Identified and are manifesting their soul’s purpose; and
  5. Aligned their soul’s purpose with their personal, professional and social goals.

The meaning of the word “ability

In my work as a teacher and life coach, I have come to deeply appreciate the word “ability.” Over time, I have expanded its meaning by identifying what I believe are the essential building blocks that truly define and embody this word. What I love about this definition is that it forces to pay great attention to who you are. 

The word ability means possession of the means to do something. Our abilities include the following:

  • Skills – your ability to do an activity  or job well especially because  you have practised it.
  • Talent – a natural skill or ability to be good at something, especially without being taught.
  • Gift / gifted  – having a special ability passed on to you from your  family lineage (parents or grandparents or great grandparents or ancestors).
  • Physical attributes – these are your visible or tangible characteristics that can be observed, measured, or touched with the physical senses. They include: height, weight, skin tone, hair texture and color, eye shape and color, voice tone, posture, facial features, body structure, physical and mental fitness and so forth.
  • Non-physical attributes or spiritual attributes -these are your invisible, energetic, or inner qualities that make up our character, soul essence and emotional-spiritual presence. They are not seen with the physical eyes, but felt, perceived and known intuitively. They include: personality traits (e.g., kindness, patience, confidence), values and beliefs, energy or vibe, consciousness and awareness level, emotional intelligence, spiritual gifts or sensitivities, moral compass or integrity, creative essence or unique expression and the aura or energetic field. Your energy  is  your ability to attract and repel aura. Your aura is your distinctive or unique energy that you release from your Self. Self is your physical, spirit & soul persons. Your aura is the manifestation of your inner and outer persons. Your aura is the collective energy that is surrounding you all the time. Your aura is so unique in that you will never find anyone, that emits the same aura as yours, including members of your family lineage. 

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